Staying Connected With Teenagers

Staying connected with teenagers is essential in building up a good relationship between parents and teens. Communication and understanding are crucial factors that have to be present in order to have a proper parenting. Here are some helpful tips on how to cultivate and gain respect from your teens :

• Keep communicating with your teens, even if they do not seem to be listening. Try to talk about topics that interest them and try to strike a conversation.
• Respect and ask for their opinions.
• Give them the right amount of respect and privacy. It is okay to knock on their door when you wish to speak to them.
• Set rules and limits on their behavior based on your values and principles. Always lay out the rules beforehand and try to reach an agreement.
• Continually tell them and show them you believe in who they are rather than what they accomplish. Always use words of encouragement and never ever compare them with others.
• Seek professional help if your teens are getting out of hand or having abnormal behaviours for more than three weeks.

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